{"id":1395,"date":"2015-03-04T08:56:56","date_gmt":"2015-03-04T08:56:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/?p=1395"},"modified":"2015-03-04T07:38:56","modified_gmt":"2015-03-04T07:38:56","slug":"030-relationships-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/030-relationships-success\/","title":{"rendered":"ICP 030 How Relationships Threaten Your Success"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><strong>Listen<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"player_container player-1395\" ><div class=\"spp_player_textabove\"><b>  <\/b><\/div><div id=\"sm2-1395\" class=\"playercontent sm2-bar-ui compact flat full-width full-width-player\"><div class=\"bd sm2-main-controls\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"sm2-inline-element sm2-button-element\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"sm2-button-bd\" style=\"background: transparent 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href=\"https:\/\/simplepodcastpress.com\/?ref=\">Simple Podcast Press<\/a> Player<\/center><\/div>\n            <\/div>\n<p><strong>(Less than 9 minutes)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/inspirationalcreatives\/ICP030-dave-ursillo-relationships-success.mp3\">Right Click Here To Download This Episode Now<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Scroll down for detailed episode notes and quick access timings<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>In this episode you&#8217;ll learn:<\/strong><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>How certain relationships will drain your energy<\/li>\n<li>The importance of managing your time with certain people<\/li>\n<li>How outgrowing relationships that no longer serve you is healthy<\/li>\n<li>What you can do to protect your true purpose in life<\/li>\n<li>The best measures for your success<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div id=\"attachment_1399\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ctt.ec\/bm24M\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" 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writer, yoga teacher and communications specialist, Dave Ursillo explores one of the biggest threats to your creative success.<\/p>\n<p>Dave suggests that when pursuing your passions, and true purpose, you will inevitably notice greater changes in your life.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll learn how sacrificing your true purpose for a relationship can be a big problem and that ultimately you have to live with yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Dave reveals why being unapologetically you, and attempting to live your best life, is your most important purpose.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a href=\"http:\/\/ctt.ec\/1847u\" title=\"Click to Tweet\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;Let your lifestyle be a product of who you are &#8230; as you keep trying to live your best life.&#8221; &#8211; Dave Ursillo<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2><strong>Items mentioned in this episode (quick access):<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span>[0:00:42]<\/span> Rob introduces this episode reflecting upon episode <a href=\"http:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/029-dave-ursillo\/\" title=\"ICP 029 Dave Ursillo on Writing, Yoga And Living An Authentically Creative Life (Part Two)\">029<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span>[0:01:23]<\/span> Dave explains the changes you&#8217;ll notice as you live a more authentic life being unapologetically you. Letting go of what no longer serves you. Outgrowing friendships.<\/p>\n<p><span>[0:01:37]<\/span> Becoming aware of the influences that shape you.<\/p>\n<p><span>[0:02:23]<\/span> Why family and friends can be one of the biggest roadblocks to your creative success. What that can feel like and why that may happen.<\/p>\n<p><span>[0:02:58]<\/span> It&#8217;s not personal. Protecting the ones we love.<\/p>\n<p><span>[0:03:21]<\/span> These changes are not different to what already happens: you naturally outgrow certain relationships for the right reasons. <\/p>\n<p><span>[0:04:20]<\/span> All circumstances, challenges, hardships, struggles and relationships are temporary.<\/p>\n<p><span>[0:04:39]<\/span> Sacrificing your sense of truth, purpose or passion for a romantic relationship can be a big problem.<\/p>\n<p><span>[0:05:06]<\/span> Ultimately, you have to live with yourself. The one perspective you&#8217;ll have for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n<p><span>[0:05:38]<\/span> Rob summaries this episode with ideas for actions you could take.<\/p>\n<p><span>[0:06:28]<\/span> Final thought from Dave: the journey of life is the greatest reward. Assessing the quality of your life by your own value system. Positively benefiting others.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/inspirationalcreatives\/ICP030-dave-ursillo-relationships-success.mp3\">Right Click Here To Download This Episode Now<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Links and Resources:<\/strong><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/daveursillo.com\/\" title=\"Dave Ursillo website\" target=\"_blank\">Dave Ursillo<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.daveursillo.com\/babsms-preview\/\" title=\"Make Your Life\u2019s Journey It\u2019s Own Reward? Travel Will Teach You How\" target=\"_blank\">Make Your Life\u2019s Journey It\u2019s Own Reward<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/alive2015\" title=\"Alive in Berlin\" target=\"_blank\">Alive in Berlin<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><strong>If you enjoyed this podcast, you&#8217;ll also like:<\/strong><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/029-dave-ursillo\/\" title=\"ICP 029 Dave Ursillo on Writing, Yoga And Living An Authentically Creative Life (Part Two)\">Dave Ursillo on Living An Authentically Creative Life (Part Two)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/027-dave-ursillo\/\" title=\"ICP 027 Dave Ursillo on Writing, Yoga And Living An Authentically Creative Life (Part One)\">Dave Ursillo on Living An Authentically Creative Life (Part One)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/026-charlie-gilkey-creative-giants\/\" title=\"ICP 026 The First Steps To Becoming The Powerful Creative Giant They Knew You Were\">Becoming The Powerful Creative Giant They Knew You Were<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/023-charlie-gilkey\/\" title=\"ICP 023 Charlie Gilkey on Delivering Epic Experiences with Creative Giants (Part One)\">Charlie Gilkey on Delivering Epic Experiences with Creative Giants (Part One)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/028-how-to-stimulate-your-creative-writing\/\" title=\"ICP 028 How To Stimulate Your Creative Writing With This One Small Shift\">How To Stimulate Your Creative Writing With This One Small Shift<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><strong>Thanks for listening<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Good luck taking action today. <a title=\"How did you get on?\" href=\"http:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/contact\/\">Let me know<\/a> how you get on!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Listen (Less than 9 minutes) Right Click Here To Download This Episode Now Scroll down for detailed episode notes and quick access timings In this episode you&#8217;ll learn: How certain relationships will drain your energy The importance of managing your time with certain people How outgrowing relationships that no longer serve you is healthy What [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,32,35,6,2],"tags":[92,31,53,14,15,54,51],"class_list":{"0":"post-1395","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-action","7":"category-mindset","8":"category-motivation","9":"category-podcast","10":"category-podcast-show-notes","11":"tag-action","12":"tag-focus","13":"tag-motivation","14":"tag-passion","15":"tag-purpose","16":"tag-relationships","17":"tag-yoga"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1395","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1395"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1395\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1420,"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1395\/revisions\/1420"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1395"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1395"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inspirationalcreatives.com\/podcast\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1395"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}