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In this episode you’ll learn:

• About the fears and thoughts of a young and shy woman
• How Jo uses creativity to build confidence and self-esteem
• That getting your body moving can help your mindset
• How Jo fights her way out of depression holes

Joanna Moore believes you don’t have to suffer with shyness because you can do something about it. From years fed up, with the pain of suffering with shyness in social situations, Jo created Twisted Sleeve to help young, shy girls develop their personal confidence.

In this episode of Inspirational Creatives, Jo, a talented illustrator, writer, blogger and confidence coach, shares her personal experiences and ideas. You’ll hear how she has a fascination with German number plates (seriously), amongst other interests, and how she takes a playful approach towards new challenges: developing confidence with travel, close companions and small wins.

“I got fed up with always being so shy and having these painful social situations. So I decided I was going to sort it out. I decided that I was going to become confident…” – Jo Moore

Items mentioned in this episode (quick access):

[0:00:42] Rob introduces Joanna Moore.

[0:01:13] Jo introduces her website, Twisted Sleeve, for shy girls to become more confident.

[0:01:45] Rob asks Jo how someone can enjoy the process of building confidence.

[0:01:50] Jo talks about confidence challenges. She offers an example of when she was too shy to try to open a door at university. She wanted to avoid looking stupid in case it was locked.

[0:02:50] Using small tasks to develop confidence: Jo suggests being shy is to do with fear and what people might think of you. Confidence issues come down to not thinking much of yourself.

[0:03:45] Jo talks about action and confidence challenges to build self-esteem. Jo’s talks about a course she developed for young women.

[0:04:05] How Jo convinced herself to try the door at university.

[0:04:30] Attending Chris Guillebeau’s events. Not making progress with confidence.

Bucket lists and motivation

[0:04:50] Having a “why”. Gretchen Rubin and motivation. Committing yourself to others to build your own confidence.

[0:05:17] Jo’s motivation comes from other people. Twisted Sleeve motivates her.

[0:05:50] Jo mentions Gretchen Rubin’s World Domination Summit talk 2013 and how people are motivated.

[0:06:25] Rob asks Jo how her own creativity has helped her confidence. Jo gets a lot of confidence from achieving things. She talks about building her website.

[0:06:53] Writing rhyming poems for other people.

[0:07:11] Small Wins. Creating her own bucket lists. Paying attention to things that are ‘me’.

German number plates, happiness and the art of adventure

[0:07:55] Learning German number plates as a way to achieve happiness.

[0:09:08] Rob asks Jo about her adventures.

[0:09:13] Jana and Jo’s Alive in Berlin podcast interview.

[0:09:20] A lot of Jo’s confidence has come from travelling. Getting across Europe. Incorporating travel into Twisted Sleeve.

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Confidence through creativity

[0:10:09] Jo has never seen herself as an artist although recently she has had a stronger appreciation of her creativity.

[0:10:30] Jo’s friend struggled to write a blog post despite having an English degree (and the knowledge and ability.) She felt she was “not creative enough”.

Creative support networks

“I’m not massively into friends” – Jo Moore

[0:11:52] Rob asks Jo about how important relationships and a support network are to her. Jo mentions her mastermind group and how one of the members went through a big positive change.

[0:12:15] How Jo struggled with Danielle La Porte’s book, The Desire Map.

[0:13:00] Identifying differences between friends and being able to appreciate her own style. How Jo plays spot the difference with her friends as a good way to get to know herself.

[0:13:30] Jo says her parents have always been supportive. Jo struggles with regular friendships. Prefers deep conversations.

[0:14:45] Jo mentions Dr Carolyn Eddleston’s presentation at Alive in Berlin. Jo was introduced to the concept of being an ‘Intimate Extrovert.’

“I will always be O.K. because I have my family” – Jo Moore

Mastermind groups and external motivation

“I don’t know where I’d be if I hadn’t been in the mastermind group.” – Jo Moore

[0:15:32] How the mastermind group has helped Jo with her confidence and creativity.

[0:16:08] Jo talks about other people being interested in your success and how she gets excited about other people’s progress. Being selfish. Having a mentor. External motivation.

[0:17:09] ] How Jo’s mastermind group is a good way for her to keep an eye on how she’s doing.

[0:17:48] Jo talks about keeping a compliments log and trying a variety of approaches: gratitude journals, eating healthily, exercise.

[0:19:20] Jo suggests that if you’ve tried one tactic to be more productive, and it didn’t work, it’s not you. Jo says not to believe, if one idea doesn’t work, that none of it works. Keep trying…

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Getting unstuck and out of deep depression

[0:19:50] Rob asks Jo if she has days when she gets stuck. She talks about being dependent on her girlfriend and overcoming feeling down.

[0:20:40] Journaling. Writing thoughts out. Coming to a conclusion or take-away point. Focusing on goals getting back up again.

[0:21:50] Rob asks Jo about a time when things came crashing down. Jo talks about a horrible dark winter, living in a basement. Feeling alone, Jo started to suffer from depression. Last six months at university.

[0:22:50] Jo isn’t happy if she’s not achieving something.

[0:23:30] You can’t decide not to be depressed. Moving forward is a conscious decision. More about creating Twisted Sleeve.

Feelings aren’t a choice… response is.

“Feelings aren’t a choice… your response to them can be.” – Jo Moore

[0:25:00] Jo suggests deep down we know what the solutions are. We don’t need to read blog posts.

[0:25:20] Getting in touch with our own desires. Rob asks Jo if she is more creative when she’s feeling rubbish. Doing exercise. Sometimes the first bit is the hardest bit. Rob talks about playing the guitar.

[0:26:45] Jo talks about running and a feeling of wanting to get out. Listening to the Unmistakable Creative podcast.

[0:27:36] Getting your body moving to help transition mental states. Jo never believed anyone who said exercise makes you happy. Doing exercise for the right reasons.

Driving, doodling and changing guitar strings

[0:28:33] Driving between Leicester and Nottingham. Long drives. Changing guitar strings and doodling. Playing cards.

[0:29:10] Occupying yourself with physical tasks to occupy your mind whilst focusing on creative solutions.

[0:29:33] Having good ideas in the shower.

[0:29:44] Rob asks Jo what has inspired her over the last week.

[0:30:12] …and the best advice she has ever received. What motivates Jo.

[0:31:15] How you can reach Jo.

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Links and Resources:

• Joanna’s Blog
• Twisted Sleeve
• Alive in Berlin*
• Unmistakable Creative podcast

People mentioned in this episode:

• Danielle La Porte (The Desire Map)*
• Chris Guellibeau
• Dr Carolyn Eddleston
• Gretchen Rubin
• Jana Schuberth

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• How To Reduce Overwhelm
• Pam Slim on Storytelling, Creative Writing and Childhood
• How To Deal With Tough Criticism
• The First Step To Finding Your Purpose
• Greg Hartle on Solving Problems with Curiosity, Resilience and Grit

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In this episode you’ll learn:

• How social media overwhelm is inevitable
• The importance of choosing one social media platform first
• The value of blogging for your business
• How consistency builds trust

More and more creative entrepreneurs are feeling overwhelmed as they try to keep up with the growing number of social media platforms. Equally, many business owners are uncertain of the true value of blogging and whether or not the investment is worth their while.

In episode 015, publicity specialist and entrepreneur, Ariel Hyatt, shared a number of insights for those looking to develop their own creative business on-line using social media and blogging.

Ariel highlighted some of the opportunities, and pitfalls, that she has experienced in her career as she has watched, from a front row seat, the collapse of traditional media as social media takes over.

In this short action episode, Rob and Ariel analyse why social media overwhelm is inevitable, what can be done about it, and whether or not blogging for business is worth the effort.

Items mentioned in this episode (quick access):

“The overwhelm is inevitable…and it gets worse.” – Ariel Hyatt

[0:00:42] Rob introduces this short action episode.

[0:01:16] Ariel talks about overwhelm with social media and the reason it gets worse.

[0:01:47] Ariel adds that it’s not too late to start mastering a social media platform that resonates with you. Ariel talks about how video is not for her.

“You’re not missing out.” – Ariel Hyatt

[0:03:05] Talking about the importance of getting good at one platform first, Ariel talks about little habits.

[0:03:54] Rob mentions episode 007 and Michael Bungay Stanier (links below.)

[0:04:03] The value of, and some myths about, blogging for business.

[0:04:40] Rob summarises the ideas learned in this episode.

“Get good at one before you do them all.” – Ariel Hyatt

Links and Resources:

• Ariel on Twitter
• Music Success in Nine Weeks book (affiliate link)

If you enjoyed this podcast, you’ll also like:

• Episode 007 Michael Bungay Stanier on Building Lasting Habits
• Episode 015 Ariel Hyatt
• How To Reduce Overwhelm (In Less Than 6 Minutes)
• How To Focus On The Work That Matters

Thanks for listening

Good luck taking action today. Let me know how you get on!